Cafe' Conversations

I had the pleasure of listening to a internet radio show the other night, and what intrigued me more than the topic it self was that it was an all male panel. Their topic, "Who's Raising Your Kids"? The discussion covered why there where so many children in black society growing up without a father and the effects this crazy reality was having on our black communities. They discussed the strain of the absentee parent placed on the household as well. But then the tables turned and one of the panelist made mention and reference to these women having babies out of wedlock, to, bitches and hoes and how he as a man did not want the responsibility of a child that was not his, no matter what the situation was. The conversation went on discussing the failures of these particular women in their choice of men whom they were making these babies with. I thought in a perfect world every child would have a father that wanted, loved and was responsible for them. I chimed in via the